Numerology Compatibility
Numerology compatibility in relationships provides insight into suitability for romance, appreciation of differences and how to better cultivate harmony between people.
When first meeting people we show our personality number.
But our heart’s desire number, or the deeper side to ourselves, is only revealed in time, as we feel safer and more comfortable with them.
Often we become attracted to the facade (personality number) that others show.
A prospective partner may be a natural match in terms of personality numbers, but a strong clash with our heart’s desire number.
Equally important, is knowing whether our life path number harmonises with a partner’s or repels them.
Our life path number, or ruling number, is the most important in our numerological blueprint.
James Dean and Italian actress Anna Maria Pierangeli
Anna Maria Pierangeli had a #6 heart’s desire, the archetype of the Nurturer.
It loves to be in a relationship and care for others, be it a family or community. This was Steve Irwin’s life path number.
#6 gels easily with the gentle #2. These numbers are both open hearted and love readily.
#6 is also a natural match with #9 life path, the archetype of the Humanitarian. Like the #6 it is also very other-oriented and service-minded. Both are creatively minded, ensuring they have a heart and mind match.
James Dean was a freedom loving Aquarian, the most unlikely zodiac sign to want to settle down in a relationship. This made him a great fit for the film, Rebel Without A Cause, but not an ideal match with Anna.
His heart’s desire number was #7 which has a love-hate relationship with #6. Anna remarked on their relationship being akin to Romeo and Juliet. While #6 is deeply committed and emotionally oriented , #7 is aloof, rather secretive and introspective.
Jerry Hall experienced the difficulty of containing the rebellious #5
Jerry Hall was paid a whopping advance to write an autobiography. She completed it, only to have the publisher to reject it for not revealing enough dirt on her ex, Mick Jagger, infamous for his monumental feats of philandering.
Many of us struggle to differentiate when polarity is beneficial and when it is detrimental to our development.
Numerology offers an understanding of our whole personality so we can determine whether we thrive more with a dynamic, but volatile type of relationship, or do best with a calmer, but less varied one.
Adding to our complexity is the fact that our numerology blueprint is not fixed.
While some of our personality traits remain constant over our lives, others fluctuate.
We are all continually navigating differing cycles. Each year we have a personal year, which brings a different focus.
There are also distinct periods of life and peak cycles of growth and challenge.
Our temperaments may be a good match, but when we start navigating different cycles we become perplexed as to why the ground seems to have shifted in our relationship.
The new millennium heralded the global shift out of the element of fire (numerology 1) and into the element of water (numerology 2)
At a collective level, there are further issues to work through when it comes to harmonising our relationships.
The last millennium was masculine in its nature, with a governing number of ONE.
From the year 2000 onwards the feminine principle governing the TWO has come to the fore.
Women are no longer subjugating their essence and needs in order to placate the insecurities of men.
Men are also outgrowing the old patriarchal energies as they seek to be more heart oriented and find equality in a relationship.
The independent mindset of the last cycle is transitioning into the desire for harmonious association with others.
Another factor coming into play is the move into the Age of Aquarius where there is a growing demand for equality and understanding in relationships, compared to the power imbalances of the past.
In growing via partnerships, we become better placed to develop our gifts and serve the wider community, in true Aquarian fashion.
As the poet William Stafford expressed:
If you don’t know the kind of person I am
and I don’t know the kind of person you are
a pattern that others made may prevail in the world
and following the wrong god home we may miss our star.
The paradox of choice colliding with the oceanic online dating pool at your fingertips
Numerology of Number 2
Within the culture, there has been a move away from relationships of convenience.
Instead of being limited to arranged marriages or the small circle of one’s local community, our global, web-based world allows us to meet people more nuanced to ourselves.
Relationships that begin from online dating are the second most common way of beginning, only marginally eclipsed by the proportion of people who meet via mutual friends.
While technology offers the potential for greater matching, we are currently beset with an equal amount of challenges, such as what has been called, Tinder and the Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse.
Connecting with people primarily due to a photo may help with assessing physical attraction but does little in the way of predicting long-term happiness, which relies on finding an emotional, mental and spiritual connection.
In the previous millennium, divorce rates were low as people stayed together due to social approval and economic necessity.
There is much to suggest they did so unhappily.
In this long 2 cycle, the opposite is occurring. People now constantly shop for relationships, always with an eye on a better deal, leading to a huge churn factor.
But the tinder profile lacks depth as does the Facebook profile, which only shows that which we want to be seen.
As people naturally show their best side when under the sway of infatuation, we often find ourselves enmeshed with someone unsuitable well before we recognise the full person.
Numerology Compatibility Reading
A numerologist can help you understand how you’re wired, what blindspots and the challenges you need to tend to if you are to experience high functioning relationships.
It casts light on a prospective partner and your compatibility together.
Equally valuable is the ability of numerology to help us understand the life purpose we have chosen to work on.
Unfortunately, most people are quite oblivious to this, as evidenced by statistics showing that upwards of 80% of people do not feel passionate about their work, the area consuming most of our lives.
It is hard to accentuate our higher or essential self when we languish in careers that don’t reflect our vocation.
This only leads to a greater desire to be rescued or completed by a partner, as opposed to nurturing one another equally and growing together.
As Howard Thurman expressed:
"There are two questions that we have to ask ourselves.
The first is ‘Where am I going?’ and the second is ‘Who will go with me?’
If you ever get these questions in the wrong order, you are in trouble."
Understanding ourselves, our partners, the cycles we are navigating and our callings, allows us to choose and sustain a relationship that brings with it the fullness of life, rather than the endless pain and drama experienced by so many.